Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places. . .

-I SERIOUSLY dont even know how to start this specific blogg owt right noww , because it is just soooo much of this going on . As I go to school, around the community, and even in church you find the smartest people who have soooo much potential; looking for love in ALL the WRONG places.

-We seem to always wonder as being teens , when will we find REAL love. . when will be in relationships that dont end.! Questioning ourselves a lot with these questions can leave us depressed and somewhat stressed. NOBODY wants to be in broken relationships or even ALONE !

-In high school, the majority of relationships that were once full of light, have eventually darkened out. Many girls and boys walk around the halls looking all SAD, because they broke up wiff someone , or they are tired of being singlee !

-Here is a little insight, for all you smart SINGLE boys out here .....

              It may seem like some girls (the majority you want) , are ALWAYS going for the bad boys, or the boys who associate themselves with gangs, drugs, or whatever ! This may be true, but just know you'll find love one day. DONT ever change yourself, or stoop to the level of someone that the girl is attracted to.. Simply meaning dont try to act bad yourself just to impress the girl. There are A LOT of people in JAIL, who spent their whole lives trying to impress people, and look where it has gotten them ! You are all smart young men , who WITHOUT A DOUBT , will be able to find a smart girl sooner or later. Its called being PATIENT; the way I see it is that GOD is shaping a young woman, that is JUST for YOU ! Remember GOOD things come to those who WAIT ......

-Here is a little insight, for the smart girls out there.....

                  I give a lot of advice at times to my friends, abowt situations that they are going through. And the one that comes up the most, is girls not being able to find the right MAN for them. Truth is.. its not that you are not finding the right MAN out the bunch, its that your looking in the wrong places..

                 My grandmother always told me that you get owt, what you simply put in. All that I am saying is that if you look for a bad boy to date, or be in a relationship wiff ...you are looking for a bad situation to get in. Just remember this formula...

         BAD BOYS = BAD SITUATIONS 

                 Dont put yourself in situations that you yourself make up. If you go through life making trouble for yourself, there is no need for enemies, because then you are your OWN WORST ENEMY!

                  One of my friends on facebook named Jasmine, posted a status that could sum upp this whole blogg abowt finding someone....

"Girls shouldn't want guys that'll put them 1st they should want guys that'll put God 1st then and only then will they find a good man !"

This blogg, "Looking for love in all the wrong places ".. is NOT just for single men and woman, but also for those in relationships, if you are not in a relationship that is profitable to you and God, then something needs to change.  I know this might seem strange....Finding a man who has the fear of God in him: But TRUST me , if you know the SAME GOD that I know , NOTHING is IMPOSSIBLE !